“I guess you can keep hoping that perfect girl will show up one day… but I think a real man would go and find her.” -Sam Hodges-
Millions of men all over the world are realizing that ‘online dating’ is no longer limited to women living in their hometown, their nearby region, or even their own country. Globalization is already affecting many areas of our lives, so naturally more and more men are exploring cross-cultural and international relationships, in hopes of finding a younger, more beautiful, and more unique woman.
Whether you know it now or not (or will admit it or not), if you are planning to start a relationships with a 28-year-old ‘hottie’ from Kiev, Bangkok, or Buenos Aires, you are likely getting in way over your head. You must also approach this very differently than dating at home because it’s simply much more complicated and requires a much more direct approach.
To date abroad and successfully find your dream girl, you must have purpose, focus, and a realistic game-plan.
From Russia to Ukraine, Thailand to the Philippines, Costa Rica to Colombia, there is no limit to the number of gorgeous online profiles of women claiming to be sincerely looking for marriage abroad. Many people, without any first-hand experience, claim that it’s all B.S. So, let’s answer a few quick questions about what is behind most of these beautiful online profiles…
Can these profiles be real? (most profiles are the real names, ages, height, weight and city of real girls)
Can these girls really be sincere? (yes, about 70% are sincerely looking for love, and about 30% are just having fun)
Am I writing this girl directly or someone else? (about 40% are posted by an Agency who may answer on the girl’s behalf)
Is there some scam involved in all of this? (about 10% of the hottest profiles are scammers, but they are easy to spot)
How can I even know if this is some big ‘online’ game? (this is a game, and you need to learn how to play)
First of all, you need to ‘get your mind right’, this is a game that beautiful women live and play-in everyday; they simply have more experience. The truly beautiful women are receiving 20+ new letters every day, they’re not sitting around waiting for you, they have lot’s of options and lots of experience.
How can you compete with all of that? That is one of the many questions I will answer for you throughout this blog.
Besides learning everything here I have to teach you, the #1 way to ‘compete and win’ is to actually be on the battle-field and meeting as many of these women as you can, another way of saying ‘practice practice practice’. 95% of all the men that write these truly gorgeous women will never actually come to their city to meet them, so if you can take the information I have for you, and actually apply it ‘in the field’, you can win.
For some men, this is natural and easy because they have international jobs and are actually ‘making money’ while being able to date these beautiful and exotic women abroad. For sure, these men will come back home with great tales of glory for their mates down at the local Pub. Many also end up staying in their adopted country and building a new life after meeting the woman of their dreams abroad.
Unfortunately, most of us have normal lives, working a normal job in our hometown, and we can’t just pick up and move to a more fun and wild ‘International Dating Hotspot’ with a great paying ex-pat job. If you are divorced with children, for sure you can’t even explore that as a possibility.
Now most of you will have slightly different ideas about what a relationship looks like, if marriage is important, what countries you want to visit, and what types of women you will be interested in. So with that in mind, most of my information will be ‘general’ in nature, designed to help anyone, any age, in any international location.
Also, there is nothing in here about the best countries to ‘get laid’ on your next holiday, or Sam’s ‘Top 5 pick-up techniques’; this is not a sex tourism road-map. The simple fact is that dating abroad offers you a more exotic, more beautiful, and probably much younger woman to marry (or date) than your typical options back home, period. If this is appealing to you, then that is what this website is designed to help you with.
Maybe you think you don’t need the information here because you’re pretty experienced yourself… so I invite you to take my 10-question quiz, which should help you evaluate what level you are actually on when it comes to international dating. Even if you think you’re ready without me, it surely can’t hurt to compare my views to yours.
But please, take the time to write down your answers before reading mine so you have a fair assessment of your readiness. Anyone that has been on a couple trips abroad to meet girls has experienced most of these situations in my quiz and I have experienced every one of these situations a dozen times or more, and my answers have evolved over time, so this exercise is worthy of your time and attention.
Another step I hope you will take is to sign up for my Weekly Newsletter. I assure you that your email is VERY safe with me and you can opt-out anytime you want. But if you are serious about finding a younger, more beautiful, and more unique woman, then this Newsletter will encourage you and keep you focused. If I miss a week, you can be sure I’m in the middle of another adventure and will give you all the exciting details very soon.
Though 90% of the information I have for you is totally FREE and incredibly valuable, there is obviously some time and expense that goes into all of this, so I do offer some additional tools to help you that I call Sam’s Playbooks. You will read about these more as you begin to dig through the blog.
One thing you will learn very quickly if you set out on this journey is that avoiding a bad girl is just as important as finding a good girl.
If I can save you just 1 wasted trip, that is easily worth 4,000 Euros and 2 weeks of your life.
If I can make one of your travel weeks more effective and efficient, that is easily worth 1,000 Euros.
If I can give you the tools to recognize and avoid just 1 bad date, that is easily worth 100 Euros.
I will do all of this, and more. I now invite you to step 2 and read a little more about me, your Author.