“I don’t always give my opinion, but when I do, most people take notes.” -Sam Hodges-
‘Dating Abroad’ is different than dating locally, and I know more about this than you do. If you give me some time and read all of my chapters, I will prove it.
From 2004 to 2015 I went on 40+ individual ‘dating trips’ originating from my home back in the States to meet women all over the world. For me, it was a combination of hoping to meet my dream girl, and just the pure adventure of it all. For sure, I have been to some exotic locations, done some amazing things, and met some incredible women.
Now, most of my trips are longer than what you might expect, typically 3 weeks or more. I recommend 17 days for your 1st trip which gives you 3 weekends. When I went to Argentina, I loved it so much I ended up just staying there 6 months! Through it all I’ve visited over 50 different countries during 4+ years of my life abroad, but my favorites I return again and again.
What is most unique is NOT that I have traveled a lot – what’s unique is that I spent almost every one of those days meeting and dating some of the most beautiful women in the world.
But, this isn’t a competition between you and me, I’m just saying my experiences give me unmatched knowledge and a unique perspective that I want to share with you, in hopes that it will help you find your dream girl with an efficient approach designed to save yourself time, money, and heartache.
If you have spent any time at all on the ‘International Dating Websites’, there is no doubt you have discovered that gorgeous young Slavic women dominate the scene… from Russia, Ukraine, Belarus, Moldova, and The 3 Baltics (Estonia, Latvia, & Lithuania), there is just no limit to the sheer number of amazing online profiles, all claiming to be sincerely looking for marriage.
I have been to the Baltics 8 different times, Russia, Belarus, & Moldova 3 times each, and I hold some dubious American record of 68 stamps in my passport from Ukraine; that’s 34 individual trips! So while you may have some valuable international dating experiences of your own, I’m sure I can still help you when it comes to dating ‘super hot’ Ukrainians.
If you prefer Latin women, I can help you there also. I have spent about 9 months total in Mexico’s Caribbean, Argentina I stayed 6 months straight, and I’ve been to every major city in Central and South America, some of them like Rio, Sao Paulo, Panama City & Bogota several times.
My Asian experiences are almost entirely consumed with 8 separate ’30-day trips’ to Thailand and a few random trips to Seoul, Bali and Manila. Sure, these are some great places to visit and meet women, but there is nothing like Bangkok and Phuket, absolutely nothing.
As cool as all that was to experience, I’ve also done a lot of things I’m not proud of and made mistakes that I hope to be able to save you from. I’ve wasted a ton of time and money and even had my heart broken a few times. If I had a ‘Sam’ back in 2004 when I started… well, let’s just say these lessons I had to learn the hard way, so I’m here to encourage you, and caution you, all at the same time.
After 1,500 nights of restless sleep in some strange beds in some strange cities, through a few trips to the E.R and one unfortunate incarceration, through dozens of snowstorms and missing way too many connecting flights, the one thing I want you to be sure about is this… your dream girl is out there, you can find her, and I am here to help you.
Now, please proceed to my quiz and find out if you’re ready to go this alone.